Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Apathetically Yours,


Scanning through the NYT for noteworthy reads in the middle of last week, this Social Science article's entitled "Is ‘Do Unto Others’ Written Into Our Genes?" caught my eye. As far as the title goes, the precept 'Do Unto Others' seems straightforward enough to follow but upon close inspection, both the positive and negative connotations attached to it leave some questions, however incredulous, unanswered. The chief of which is why certain people choose a beneficent route to resolve a conflict while some enjoy a more despicable option to handling life's problems.

As a keen observer of societal norms and conventions, I am intrigued with the concept of morality and how it melds with various cultures and/or social groupings. In the article, a moral psychologist, Dr. Jonathan Haidt explores the origins and conditions that bring about the concept of morality.

His novel approach in dissecting the foundations of morality can be traced to the following two 'drivers' or mental systems, namely moral intuition and moral judgment, for which "the mind is scarcely aware of the difference" between the two. In fact, the dichotomy lies in the evolution of the two systems before and after the development of language respectively.

The emotional responses of moral intuition occur instantaneously — they are primitive gut reactions that evolved to generate split-second decisions and enhance survival in a dangerous world. Moral judgment, on the other hand, comes later, as the conscious mind develops a plausible rationalization for the decision already arrived at through moral intuition.


To further his understanding on the 'subterannean' or unconscious part of morality, Dr. Haidt visited India and subsequently discovered "a much wider moral domain" when compared to the Western concept of morality. As a result, he arrived at the following conclusion:

...He identified five components of morality that were common to most cultures. Some concerned the protection of individuals, others the ties that bind a group together.

Of the moral systems that protect individuals, one is concerned with preventing harm to the person and the other with reciprocity and fairness. Less familiar are the three systems that promote behaviors developed for strengthening the group. These are loyalty to the in-group, respect for authority and hierarchy, and a sense of purity or sanctity.


In other words, morality in its broadest sense acts as a restraint for any selfish behaviours. As expected, the individual-centric take on morality - dealing with justice, rights and the welfare of the individual - is high in Western countries, whereas the emphasis on group cohesion is prevalent in other societies around the world.

Eastern cultures are also where religion plays an important role in buttressing the innate moral systems, by way of providing religious-minded persons the means to cohere and bond within a harmonic setting. Thus, the concept of sanctity and purity, that encapsulates the teachings of major religions, forms an important moral foundation by ensuring that its people toe the line.

Following another study with a fellow graduate student, Dr. Haidt further theorised that a person's political leaning is influenced by his or her moral standing and/or beliefs.

They found that people who identified themselves as liberals attached great weight to the two moral systems protective of individuals — those of not harming others and of doing as you would be done by. But liberals assigned much less importance to the three moral systems that protect the group, those of loyalty, respect for authority and purity.


In other words, our position on the liberal-conservative spectrum depends largely on our attitudes with respect to these five moral components.

While Dr. Haidt's classification of moral virtues is debatable and therefore inconclusive, I believe in the essence of his research results - stressing on morality in societal living is the only self-respecting way to curb selfishness.

Alas, in today's frightening day and age, such moral components have been slowly eroded and de-emphasised in place of loftier goals of fast recognition, dog-eat-dog competition and material wealth. Moreover, by putting religious affiliations and practices on the back burner, we run the risk of accelerating the moral decay of our local communities.

I wonder if this phenomenon is partly the reason why some developing countries gradually morph into less orderly societies as they painfully align themselves to the difficult benchmarks set out by the developed nations. Granted, the individualistic moral imprints - fair treatment and justice - that define most Western societies shouldn't be underestimated for they, in my opinion, brought forth the civic-minded dimension in such individuals.

Irrespective of religious or political ideologies, unconditionally helping people in train station, opening doors for others, and other seemingly small yet selfless acts are common daily occurences in these societies. Unfortunately, on the other extreme, poor identification with group solidarity in some Western countries leads to the worst kind of behaviour - apathy. People tend to become callous and choose not to get involved in the plight of another man (or woman) on the street. This bystander effect - the term which was derived from the Kitty Genovese case - is widespread today because people's priorities, and likewise moralities, have shifted tremendously in the last 50 years.

Which brings me to the matters close to home. Following her burial last Friday, the sad, tragic murder case of Nurin Jazlin is still fresh in the minds of fellow Malaysians. Her abduction from the pasar malam (night street market) that fateful day of August 20th reinforces my unswerving belief in the bystander effect, where a person is less likely to help another when other people are present than when he or she is alone. Most importantly, the general feeling of apathy towards another human being is the overriding factor for inaction in situations such as the one that had gruesomely befallen this hapless eight-year-old.

Some people might cite that they are minding their own business and wouldn't want to be perceived as unnecessarily fussing over others. And yet, when it comes to their personal sphere, they wouldn't mind being a nosey-parker or a gossip-mongerer in dealing with affairs that are significant to them, or to their net worth. Evidently, when moral virtues disintegrate, selfishness and avarice take centre stage.

During the school days, I often wonder as the reason why we have to endure Pendidikan Moral (Moral Education) when such a thing, to me, is quite basic and practically uses our commonsense knowledge. In light of current bone-chilling events, I think the emphasis on moral education couldn't have been more urgent and apropos.

Image taken from here.

9 comments:

The Purple Cat said...

How sadly true that nowadays, people choose not to lift a finger when a strange circumstance unfold before their very eyes. One that if they were to intervene in time, would have affected the outcome greatly, as in the case of Nurin. Maybe, she might still be alive.

A screaming kid being bundled into a van is not enough for others to pluck up courage to intervene??
**sighs**

Muddy said...

it's scary to think that people don't react faster then they should. for example, my brother got into a car accident recently and he told me that moments when he was pinned down in the car, he watched several cars just pass by while he was screaming for help.

this scares me...

Nour said...

That is scary.

My sister's car broke down while heading home from work. She was alone, the car was blocking the main road, she asked around for help..and one particular Malaysian said something like this .."saya tak boleh tolongla saya semput" a few just waved their hands to indicate a NO....Sigh!

As for arwah Nurin's case.. it is just unbelievable.

Theta said...

ThePurpleCat,

It's sad how our society has 'devolved.'

This tragic episode is a wake-up call for me as well, to be vigilant towards others' cry for help even if I'm in a rush to be somewhere else.

Muddy,
That IS scary! Luckily, your brother is alright.

Some hapless souls do not get their intervention in time. :(

Nour,
If we can change people's mindset with regards to other people's lives, our future generations would also follow suit.

Something must be done on the grassroot level! Isn't the Nurin case telling enough??!!

Cosmic_GurL said...

I dont know what happened to our so called "Masyarakat Penyayang"...a woman could be robbed and hurt in broad daylight and I bet you ppl couldnt care less.

It's so sad what happened to Nurin. Ive got nieces and I wonder about wht parents have to do now to protect their kids esp daughters from these monsters. We cant protect our kids 24/7, can we?

Lollies said...

There are still a few good samaritan out there. I know a few who helped but got hurt themselves and some even ended up dead. Our society are that bad now.

But I remembered this one chinese girl who helped nabbed a snatcher. She was slightly big in size and somehow overpowerd the snatcher. I think a slimming centre sponsored her to become slim and she is now. So slim! I hope she is still as gutsy.

Let's look at ourselves. If we do see something happen, a snatcher or a robbery or a group of bullies bullying a kid. What would we do?

NorAiniJ said...

For what its worth, I am pretty optimistics that Arwah Nurin's case may have opened up the eyes/ears of the society.

May Allah bless us all.

AlFatihah to Adik Nurin!

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Theta said...

Cosmic Gurl,
That's what I'm afraid of. Having to look after our kids 24/7, because the long arm of the law is not effective and proactive enough, or our people aren't that civic-conscious and empathetic to the plight of others on the street.

Lollies,
I remember her! She's one of the few cases that got highlighted in the papers. She's one gutsy lady!

This Nurin case compels me to reflect on my own ability to extend help if I were in the vicinity.

Samaritans come in many guises. They are, to me, a form of God's divine intervention.

NJ,
It has opened a lot of debates and induced us to reassess our stance with respect to helping others in dire need of physical aid, no questions asked.

But I'm afraid when the case of Nurin dies down, so would the lessons learnt from this tragic episode. The mind has a strange way of blanking out painful memories...

Lapa,
Thanks for dropping by, albeit for spamming purposes :]