Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Treasuring Teluk Chempedak



As I'm writing this, we are on our way back from Kuantan. It's been a marvellous break from our routine, a mini-celebration of our three-year union. And a welcome respite it turned out to be! The first evening we, together with the regular Sunday crowd, cruised on foot along the Teluk Chempedak winding esplanade. Waves crashing on the beach later lured us to its side. We lumbered on the sand thanks to a heavy stroller before finding a suitable spot to sit on and enjoy the cool sea breeze. Some folks were playing their kites, lovebirds enjoying their ice-cream cones and children squealing by the water's edge.

It was so windy that a red flag was raised, indicating a dangerous sea condition to swim. Coupled with the low humidity, our ice-cream got into our hair and dripped copiously in between our fingers! Just not the ideal day to have ice-cream.
Sadia loves the swimming pool to bits and cried everytime we left it. We had to pacify her by putting her next in the bathtub! The analogy 'Like a fish to water' is most apt here.:-)

A diverse selection of batik and other souvenirs at Batik Village, a roadside stop-over at Pak Soh 2 stall in Beserah for keropok lekor and a sumptuous seafood feast at night were among the memorable highlights of our brief stay.
Just the seaside getaway that we need to end the year 2007!



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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Tag! You're It!


Thank you Frankensteina for tagging me! Heck, I don't know what this survey is for but it looks like fun. So here goes:

1. Name one person who made you laugh last night.

My husband who was telling me his encounter in the KLCC public toilet when the cleaning lady taught him how to use the automatic water faucet and soap dispenser.

2. What were you doing at 0800?

Internet surfing.

3. What were you doing 30 minutes ago?

Putting the rambunctious Sadia to sleep.

4. What happened to you in 2006?

Had a baby, quit my job and living the life in the Netherlands.

5. What was the last thing you said out loud?

Sadia, No, no,no!

6. How many beverages did you have today?

I've lost count. But the highlight was the vanilla latte in Starbucks. :)

7. What color is your hairbrush?

Hmm, it depends on which ones I'm using and if I remember to comb. Haha!

8. What was the last thing you paid for?

Everything was paid by hubby since it's our anniversary. ;)

9. Where were you last night?

Having an anniversary dinner in The Gardens.

10. What color is your front door?

That's a tough one. I'm not particularly observant. I think it's greyish brown.

11. Where do you keep your change?

Mostly in the pocket of my green handbag.

12. What’s the weather like today?

Cooling rain!

13. What’s the best ice-cream flavor?

Rocky Road Chocolate! Yum.

14. What excites you?

Do macaroons count? *someone rolling eyes somewhere, enough with that already!*

15. Do you want to cut your hair?

I'm in need of a trim and fast!

16. Are you over the age of 25?

If I say yes, do I get a free makeover? *batting eyelashes*

17. Do you talk a lot?

Depends on the company OR if I'm high on caffeine OR Both.

18. Do you watch the O.C.?

Not interested in teenage angst serials anymore.

19. Do you know anyone named Steven?

How does this information pertain to the survey, I wonder? But if it is that important, the answer would be a flat No.

20. Do you make up your own words?

All the time, baby.

21. Are you a jealous person?

Don't get me started. Hahahaha.

22. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter ‘A’.

Amy!

23. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter ‘K’.

Huh? Long lost friend cum neighbour whom I have not spoken to in a long while, count? If so, Kamaliah. Ooops, make that NOR-Kamaliah.

24. Who’s the first person on your received call list?

Hubby.

25. What does the last text message you received say?

Colour. Price range? Hehe. Btw, why kena bg anniv pressie?

26. Do you chew on your straw?

Mind-bloggling this question but No.

27. Do you have curly hair?

A resounding Yes.

28. Where’s the next place you’re going to?

To bed.

29. Who’s the rudest person in your life?

I can't say lest I get a defamation suit. Hehe.

30. What was the last thing you ate?

Classic Pizza.

31. Will you get married in the future?

I'm already hitched.

32. What’s the best movie you’ve seen in the past 2 weeks?

Transformers on DVD! Awesome CGI, y'all!

33. Is there anyone you like right now?

In real life or virtual life? Real life - LOVE mi familia; Virtual - an Avatar named Hugo *winks*

34. When was the last time you did the dishes?

Last night of course.

35. Are you currently depressed?

No!

36. Did you cry today?

A bit of sniffles.

37. Why did you answer and post this?

Because a blogger friend tagged me for it.

38. Tag 5 people who would do this survey.

Simah, Mimin, Nour, CosmicGurl and last but not least, Nina :).

Cartoon taken from here.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Bonne Anniversaire Mon Cheri



Today, three years have passed since we uttered our marriage vows,
Yet, it still feels like we were married yesterday.

I can recall the time when I chased you around the big oak tree on the University Quad in California for having the gall to say that I looked like Rafidah Aziz in my then big-lensed glasses.

And the time I looked forward to your letters from Kuching during the summer break before we went off to our respective colleges.

Also the time when I beamed a huge smile upon seeing you waiting for me at Chicago train station for our weekend outing in the Windy City. Always with a coffee in your hand to kickstart the day.

And the time I shed a few quiet tears in the train ride back to Indiana after a wonderful Fall Break in Evanston.

How about the night we spontaneously lied down on the sidewalk to make snow angels in the dead of Midwest winter?

Not to forget our unforgetabble series of adrenaline rush at Six Flags Great America during your Senior Graduation Week's activities. Love them roller coasters!

And how I like to wind you up for that California Love-infused silat performance on stage.

How about that 'relaxing stroll' wending through the dangerous overpass at Jalan Kuching on our way to a shortlived picnic in Lake Garden. Some passerbys gave us funny looks for lolling about in that ridiculous heat!

And that Penang trip to visit my twin's intended which was fraught with thrills and emotions, in between the rickety KTM service to Butterworth. A group of gangsta monkeys in Botanical Garden was one such highlight.

The trip down south to Lion City was equally memorable, with the whole family traipsing down Orchard Road.

And in the early days, each time you sent me 'home' at Bank Negara's Komuter station following an outing when we were both without cars. Now, in our 30-plus year-old bodies, we wonder how could we have walked all over the places in KL.

And of course, that absurdly long yet most cherished phonecall, discussing our future together, which had bumped me up to Cloud Nine.

Despite (or is it because of?) the initial hiccups and subsequent tiffs, we have managed to forge an inexplicable bond with some legroom to maneuver :)

Happy Anniversary my beloved, my kindred spirit. Thanks for everything that you've done to make all the moments in our lives count.

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Let's Go Pinkie!


I've been wanting to write about this particular news for some time but real life caught up with me and I had to settle a few things that have been on the backburner. Perhaps one day when everything is back in order, I will recount snippets of these momentous events.

The article in question was highlighted to me by none other than The Other Half during one of our many driving excursions. To be exact, while stuck in traffic jam coming back home to Ampang from our numerous mall jaunts. Yes, it is true we don't do any kind of sports, but I figure brisk-walking in the long stretches of a mall a form of exercise, no?

Okay, I've digressed.

It was when a driver entered in front of our lane abruptly without signalling that he recalled this piece of news as flagged by Yahoo. In Australia, the New South Wales Roads and Transport Authority ('RTA') launched a new campaign aimed at young drivers who, it claimed, are desensitised to images of gore and mayhem as depicted in the conventional advertisements for road accidents.

The latest TV campaign to encourage drivers to respect speed limits features young women wiggling their little fingers at passing speedsters. The gesture represents a small penis in youth culture but in the ads, even an elderly woman uses the signal. So, too, do other young men who are not in the driver’s seat.

According to a survey, this 'Pinkie' campaign which was launched in June 2007, is proved to be successful at arresting the number of fatal accidents in the densely populated state.
Speeding is a factor in about 40% of road deaths in NSW each year, according to RTA figures.

Despite being hailed a success story by authorities, some quarters complained about 'sexism' and blatant 'misandry' of this unorthodox road safety campaign.

One manly man was evidently not amused by the successful transmission of 'wiggling the little pinkie' gesture by the public, and in an outrage, lobbed a plastic bottle to the female pedestrian who pinkied him. He was fined A$400 for his stupid behaviour.

This Aussie campaign got me thinking as to the ramifications, reactions and results of such an ad blitz if it were to launch in Malaysia. Would it be as effective?

Holding commitment, money and follow-through constant, I wonder if the general public would receive this ad campaign favourably. Or would the veritable Malaysian caring, sopan-santun values nip in the bud its usage and propagation?

Personally, I think wiggling the pinkie is less of a hassle and more convenient than sticking out your middle finger. More importantly, it takes less energy too for lazy people like me! And the message it is sending "Small male unit", to be politically-correct, is loud and clear. Most men, unless if he's a simpleton, would get the drift.

I remember the time when I had trouble shooting my middle finger into the air because I was either too timid to use it or too prissy to exercise my middle digit. I think it was a combination of both. It felt vulgar. Then again, driving in KL for some years sadly inured me to this universal gesticulation. If you can't beat them, join them. However, let me qualify that I only utilise it in the most appropriate, temper-inducing cases. Appropriate is subjective, and as a woman, making sure you're driving with supportive gears, suitable weapons and brawny people is one such condition.

The introduction of this campaign to Malaysians is also timely considering the recurring cases of fatal road-related accidents, despite the road safety advertisements along the familiar line of bloody scenes as well as the police's endless road operations. Moreover, the pinkie wiggling inference brings to mind the larger-than-life exhaust pipes that are de riguer among the young crowd and other misguided motor enthusiasts. It has been an inside joke among me and my sisters that people - more often than not male - who install and rev up those annoying, noisy contraptions at the back of their poorly souped up vehicles, are overcompensating for something else. A physical sort of shortcoming, if you get what I mean.

As you can see, I am more than ready to embrace this campaign and crook my little finger at such inept drivers!

Let's say this spate of advertisements is properly disseminated to a receptive Malaysian public who are more than eager to exercise their Pinkie right. Would those reckless, errant drivers heed the insinuation portrayed in these ads? I would like to think so. But somehow I think the result would be mix.

In the rural areas and neighbourhood enclaves, some motorcyclists and motorists still drive without a helmet and fastening their seatbelts respectively for that quick trip to the sundry shop or kedai mamak. When one's mindset is fixed and conditioned to an environment, it is difficult to change the way things are.

As for perceptive male urbanites and cultured wannabes, this campaign would immediately hit the very core of their manhood, so to speak. Gangsterism and illegal street racing aside, as long as this campaign gets imprinted on the brains of these youngsters, others not bobbling in that age bracket would have a chance to drive in one piece and peace again.

So, guys and gals, boys and girls, men and women, please don't hesitate to wiggle your pinkie!